Asp/php emailing with flash

hello,have torn all my hair out over this. I have done countless tutorials, and in the past i had a system that worked. But it is was so temperamental using php,that sometimes it would email sometimes it wouldn’t. My server hosts say the server doesnt support php,then why did it work for 3 months and syddenly stop. They say the server only supports asp. thus i’ve found plenty of tutorials but they don’t work properly either. I get one email out of them and then they stop. Gonna throw myself outta my window embracing my ■■■■ mac,any help would make me very VERY happy. Crispin:puzzle: