Dynamic flash contact form newbie (please be nice)

im totally new to this. i have the template #7057 from template monster http://www.templatemonster.com/flash-templates/7057.html
and can not for the life of me figure out how to get the contact form to work. there is nowhere to change anything except what it actually says next to the form boxes in the dynamic file(where you make all the changes to text). im stumped as to how to tell it to send what you fill in the boxes to your email. i know, im dumb. this was the same thing that happened to us with the last one i got from them (7310), we ended up just erasing the form alltogher and went with a popup link. the guys at support keep telling me to change the “php” file, and i cant even find one in the bundle?!?! im hoping someone here can help and explain some of this php+flash stuff. ive searched and dont think ive found anything that looks like the same type of thing im trying to do.
any help is very, very much appreciated!!
thanks
cb