FF annoyance... fix?

So Ive been using FF for about 2 weeks now. Other than it being a memory hog and a half, and it crashing every now and then, I luv the tabbed browsing and the customizable themes. :}
But there is one annoyance that if I can’t find a fix for, Im going back to IE.
When ever I browse Flash sites, ( and I browse alot ) if there is a link on the site, the pop-up blocker blocks it unless I either turn it off, or add it to my safe list by going to tools/options/web features. Now this is a pain in the behind. :td: Any one know of a fix for this?