Flash and lightbox 2.0

I have a flash nav and mp3 player embedded on a page and I’m trying use lightbox to open up the images, but instead of working correctly, it’s making me go bald and crazy. Everything functions, but when lightbox is open, the flash elements reveal themselves on rollover. I heard this may be solved by changing the z-index in the css or the wmode transparency, but I haven’t been able to find anything on this specific problem. Here’s a link to the page…http://www.mikemoccia.com/hear.html. Click on the top left thumb.

Let me know if I should post any files or if this is even possible…or maybe an easy alternative? I’m not married to this lightbox (even though it’s pretty cool). And please help me before all of my hair falls out.