Flash and lightbox

Hi all
just ran into a small glitch with this lightbox feature.
I have some flash objects on the page and when the lightbox is activated, and you rollover a flash object they flicker into the foreground.

Have forced the z-index but that does not seem to fix.
Also this is a safari problem have not tested on other browsers.

Is there a way to use an ID and enabled=false;
But using javascript.

Thanks a million