Flash, explorer, automated activation

hi, guys, I am back again:)

could not find a way to describe the topic, as I could not word the wuestion so that our forum could find and answer.

problem is very easy.

if you rememmber, whenever you see the flash in the explorer window, there is like a border around it.

unles you click ONCE inside the flash object is not activated.

about 2-3 months ago I have see a solution for that, but as we all do misplaced it…

it involed something like placing a javascript object or so… please suggest further actions.