[FlashCS3] pls help! roll over menu conflict with roll out - Vimeo menu style

Hi there,
I’m trying to make the menu in FLV player like Vimeo but it seems roll over always conflict with roll out script (I just start to learn how to write script and use only basic onRollOver, onRollOut). I am totally have no idea how to make the video controls visible only when you roll over the video clip like VIMEO. It looks like they build it on different way of mine as when the mouse over the flash area their cursor still be an arrow but mine is hand pointer.
Please anybody could help me or give me some suggestion.

Many many thanks, :sc:
Yota