FLV autoload question - How to stop autoload in an FLV

Hi Folks,
I have a single flv that I need to get up on the web. I have autostart turned to false, but I need some way to stop the darn flv from loading until the user hits play. This is just slowing everything down if the user isn’t going to watch the flv. Is there a way to turn autoload off? I’m using flash 8…

Thanks so much for your time.