FMX04 onClipEvent (data) Pleaes HELP

I have a scene (porsche) in which I have a movieclip instances (p_movie_link) that I use to call an external swf file (porsche_movie.swf) into it. I want my scene timeline (porsche) to pause at the frame that the external movie clip(porsche_movie.swf) is called into the scene (porsche) until that external movie (porsche_movie) is loaded, then I want my main scene time line (porsche) to play. I have been working on this for the better part of the day and I am no further along now then I was 5 hours ago, if someone could point me in a directon as to where I could find some help on this topic, I would be very greatful!!!