Getting an iframe to work flash header where links are in an external text file

guys and gals please help me out here… My brain is fried from fighting with this file for the 4 days…

heres what i am trying to do:

the header is all flash and has an external file from which you can change the links etc. my problem is that i want to use the flash header to load pages into an iframe.

to see what i mean check out this link shermans

external text file which looks like this:

name=ON SELF DEFENSE&slogan=COMPANY SLOGAN HERE&rep=replay&button1=ORGANIZATION&button2=MEMBERSHIP SERVICES&button3=NEWS&button4=CALENDAR&button5=GALLERY&button6=MERCHANDISE&button7=DOWNLOADS&button8=SEARCH&icon1=HOME&icon2=SITEMAP&icon3=CONTACT US&url1=#&url2=#&url3=#&url4=#&url5=#&url6=#&url7=#&url8=#&iurl1=#&iurl2=#&iurl3=#&enddata=1

so how to i get it to load the file requested file in an iframe. everything that i have tried allows me to open it up in another window.

And then to make matters worse the little bit of Actionscript i know takes me to some weird windows.com page telling me i cannot move the My Documents folder. (i dont know i am way out of my league here)

I that you guys and gals are some of the best when it comes to flash any help will be greatly appreciated and the possibility of getting more paying work…