Help--Flash File- 20K, too large for a website?

Hi everyone!
I’m very new to flash and currently developing a wedding website. My website is 1 .fla file split into different frames and layers. Each frame block (about 10 frames for each page) has a different picture image (about 100k large). I haven’t published my site yet as I’m still working on it, but I’ve been reading up on the size of a flash movie and fell that my flash size may be too large. Does anyone have any suggestions on decreasing the size, or suggestions on how to publish it so viewers won’t have to wait too long to view the entire site?

Please help! Thanks.