Is there a way to specify a scene or frame a .swf should open on?

Is there a way to make a flash menu for an otherwise HTML website with a seperate scene for each page? So that, for example, when you’re on the home page it shows the home button in the down state and it isn’t clickable. And so on and so for the other pages. I know I could create seperate .swf’s for each page, but then each one would have to load on each page visit instead of loading just once on the home page and then being cached for the rest of the site. Is there a way to specify a scene or frame a .swf should start on when opened?