Loading swf and attachMovie

I have two swf files, the first one (called player) has most of the game code, the second (called stage1) has stage1 items.

player is opened to start the game, it then loads in stage1 which loads fine, then the code in player starts to write a tiled based map, but I want the images of the tiles to come from stage1, I cant get this to work with attachFile as it trys to load them from player instead.

I have tryed using runtime sharing, which i believe you have to load the library from stage1 into player before player is published, which isnt an option for me.

Is ther any other method that I can use to load the tiles from stage1 easily.

Any help with this would be great.