Loading XML in Flash

Hi All,
I want to create a flash movie to collect user answer and store them to database. I’m not a flash programmer and neither a designer. I’m also not learning Action Script. I know all other languages except this! So, I’m a new born right now!!!

Given below is the application idea:
A car in which a person will shown as seated. A question will be asked with few options. The option for any question would be 2-4 and user needs to click on any button. Only 5 question will be asked to any user and they will remain same for all and forever. On answering each question the car will slightly move forward towards some end, like a winning trophy!! At the end, I will have his/her answer for all the questions.

Below is my idea to develop the above
At first frame a still car will be show and on 5th frame the question will be loaded and after answering and successful submission to database the movie will be taken from 6th to 10th frame while showing car as moving and this will continue to end while increasing the frame count. I dont know whether I’m right or wrong. Can anyone give me a logic as how to do this in flash.

Below is my query
The question and options will be stored in an XML file which needs to loaded. Now, if I load the xml file and get the first question at some frame then after answering that question how could I load the next question. Do I again need to load the complete file and fetch the subsequent question!!! Or is there any other better way??? Can I load the complete file once and store it values in an array and fetch each question from that instead of loading file every time!!!

I’ve also made a simple form with input boxes to store their values but its going wrong. I’m entering only 6 character in boxes but my ASP files shows me their length as 147 characters!! Can anyone help me in this also. I’ve cleared the “Render text as Html” option also but no help.

Can anyone help me in the above. Please reply me soon as I have to complete till october 15.

Regards,
Javed