loadMovie and _root PLEASE HELP! [renamed]

I’m so freakin’ frustrated!!!

OK!!! i have an external movie clip that i want to load to a main clip.
This external clip have something to do with its root

So my question is:

  1. How do u tell the _root in the external MC to point to its real root? (I’ve search the forum and tried to change _root to _parent but it doesnt work)

  2. If changing to _parent doesnt work, does this means that there is something wrong with the empty MC container that i use?

I know there are some pro in this forum so PLEASE HELP ME!!!