Long distance relationships question

I didn’t think my first forum question would be this but I need the your opinion.

I’ve been seeing this guy since May and he’s 1,000 miles away from me…lol. (my sis lives in the same town). The moment he layed eyes on me he went crazy! texting me, calling non-stop and i blew him off cuz it was pretty annoying! i thought he was an alright guy but i was tlking to some1 else at the time.

I wasn’t used to talking to a guy that was soooo ■■■■ nice lol. Yeah, i’ve had my share of a**holes etc. We talked for hours on the phone and we have seen eachother 3 times since then. He told me the sweetest things…why would he put soo much effort into calling me, fixing my laptop etc. It’s not like i have money…& he’s broke too lol. I just reallly enjoyed his company. i talked to a couple of his family members on the phone. He visited 3 wks ago ( and met my family ,he had met them before) .

Everything was going great …until he started to become flaky with me. He gave me this speech about “you should go out and flirt…i don’t want you to be close-minded and tell evry1 that u have a man,bcuz i can’t be there w/ you”…I haven’t even had a chance to tell a guy that lol! He told me other stuff about being confident and not shy.

He stopped calling after that (and we tlked evrynight)… 3 days later i called him(friday) and he said " i was scared to call you back, are you mad at me?" …then he called Sunday…he acted like if nothing happened. He was saying stuff like your my grl etc…etc…

OMg…I’M SOOO CONFUSED! i read into things way too much. :crying:
Ok guys what do u think?