Menu problem in flash

I have created two menus on my starting frame. Have spended two more frames for handling the rollover. So if you roll over the button in frame 1 go to frame 2 and if you roll over the second button in frame 2 go to frame 3.

But now I have some questions.

1.How does I handle it that when I stop rolling over the buttons the menus disappear(so return to frame 1)??? Because when I do it with the roll out event. I can’t display any menus which is very logic because the button isn’t selected when I try to select an item in the menu.

But how to do this then?

2.I want to hold this menus for WHOLE my flash site. So what does I have to do to manage this. So it is a navigation menu which is ALWAYS accessible. But how does I do this?

(because if I want to select a new frame with real information, i have to do all these steps again???)

Thanks if you want to help me with one of the problems.

First problem is solved. Now only that second problem is important.

So this is the question:

I want to hold this menus for WHOLE my flash site. So what does I have to do to manage this. So it is a navigation menu which is ALWAYS accessible. But how does I do this?

(because if I want to select a new frame with real information, i have to do all these steps again???)

Thanks for help