NetStream: Pause On Load?

I’m using our new Flash Media Server to deliver flv video.

I don’t want the video to play right away, I want the user to start playback when desired by hitting the play button.

I’m loading the video file like this:“myFLVfile”); which loads the video but then begins playing it right away.

I’ve tried adding myNetStream.pause(true); immediately following, but that doesn’t work. Instead, the video goes ahead and plays, albeit sluggishly and without audio.

How can I load the file but have it paused until the user hits play?