Pause Button for Dynamically Loaded swf

I hope that I am not too confusing. I have a swf that loads onto the page. Within that swf is a movieclip named swfContainer. I have 4 swfs that dynamically load into that container randomly on refresh. I have a pause button named pauseControl that is in the swf that loads onto the page (not inside the dynamically loaded swfs). So I need pauseControl to talk to the swf loaded inside the movieclip. Currently the pauseControl is commented out until it is working. Thank you so much.

Here is my actionscript:

import flash.display.Loader;       
import flash.display.LoaderInfo;
import flash.net.URLRequest;
import flash.events.Event;
import flash.events.ProgressEvent;
import flash.text.TextField;
import flash.text.TextFormat;
import  flash.display.MovieClip; 
import  flash.events.MouseEvent;

var myLoader:Loader = new Loader();
var swfArray:Array = new Array("http://URLREMOVED/swf_0.swf", "http://URLREMOVED/swf_1.swf", "http://URLREMOVED/swf_2.swf", "http://URLREMOVED/swf_3.swf");

// Sets the number of files in the random sequence
// IMPORTANT: Set this number to how many swfs you have
var swfNumber = 4;

// Creates a random number:
var randomNumber = Math.floor(Math.random()*swfNumber);

var selectswf = swfArray[randomNumber];
var loadswfURL:URLRequest = new URLRequest(swfArray[randomNumber]);

myLoader.load(loadswfURL);

myLoader.contentLoaderInfo.addEventListener(Event.OPEN,showPreloader);
myLoader.contentLoaderInfo.addEventListener(ProgressEvent.PROGRESS,showProgress);
myLoader.contentLoaderInfo.addEventListener(Event.COMPLETE,showLoadResult);
						
var loadProgress_txt:TextField = new TextField();
loadProgress_txt.x = 484;
loadProgress_txt.y = 76;
loadProgress_txt.autoSize = TextFieldAutoSize.LEFT;

var loadingTextFormat:TextFormat = new TextFormat();
loadingTextFormat.font = "Trebuchet";
loadingTextFormat.color = 0xffffff;
loadingTextFormat.size = 16;

loadProgress_txt.defaultTextFormat = loadingTextFormat;
addChild(loadProgress_txt);


function showPreloader(evt:Event):void {
	addChild(loadProgress_txt);
}

function showProgress(evt:ProgressEvent):void {
	loadProgress_txt.text = "loaded: "+evt.bytesLoaded+" from "+evt.bytesTotal;
}

function showLoadResult(evt:Event):void {
	removeChild(loadProgress_txt);
	swfContainer.addChild(myLoader);
}

//controlBox

//controlBox.addEventListener(MouseEvent.ROLL_OVER, activateControlBox); 
//controlBox.addEventListener(MouseEvent.ROLL_OUT, hideControlBox); 
//controlBox.addEventListener(MouseEvent.CLICK, onClickHandler); 
//controlBox.addEventListener(MouseEvent.MOUSE_DOWN, onPressHandler); 
//controlBox.addEventListener(MouseEvent.MOUSE_UP, onReleaseHandler); 

//use hand cursor 
//controlBox.buttonMode = true; 
//controlBox.useHandCursor = true; 

//function activateControlBox(evt:MouseEvent):void{evt.target.gotoAndPlay("_over");} 
//function hideControlBox(evt:MouseEvent):void{evt.target.gotoAndPlay("_up");} 
//function onClickHandler(evt:MouseEvent):void{} 
//function onPressHandler(evt:MouseEvent):void{} 
//function onReleaseHandler(evt:MouseEvent):void{}

//end controlBox

//pauseControl
//controlBox.myControls.pauseControl.addEventListener(MouseEvent.MOUSE_UP, onClickPause);

//function onClickPause(evt:MouseEvent):void{trace(swfContainer.content);}

//end pauseControl