Problem with external .swf

Hi!

I have a huge problem, on page load I have one .swf file that have a preloader that load everything. (as normal…) exept an external .swf file (that loads up when I click a button)

Works fine, and the external swf file loads in all pictures from a folder on the server.
(1.png, 2.png, 3.png and so on…) up to almost 80 images.

If someone DON’T wait for every picture to load and then click on other button, it’s still loads pictures to the stage, why is this? (every picture haven’t loaded in the gallery get, but keeps loading… when change frame/scene…) Is it possible to STOP all / stop gallery.swf to load when click on a button that goes to another frame/scene?
If some one click on gallery and then fast clicks on a button on the site, the
external swf still load since the picture hasent finished download (it just load in to the stadge even if the external .swf file don’t show. and the container is’t ont the stadge. anyone ells how had/has this problem?

I have also tried to preload all the images that loads from the folder, but when the external swf loads, every picture loads in again, since isn’t the same .swf or?
Is there a way to preload this with out get it to reload again when the .swf loads?

Thanks in advance
Henric