Figured it out. In case anyone ever needs this again.
Follow this link, it explains that due to security reasons introduced in Flash Player 6.4 something and later, loading from within a movie to another domain is not allowed.
So basically you download the proxy.php in my case, pass the url to it that you would put in your movie, change the AS to reflect the name of the proxy file. Make sure you use just the name, not “http://www.yada.com/proxy.php”
I’m going to leave a few keywords in here in case there is a search. Works locally but not on Server. XML or RSS feed.