sendAndLoad + serveur time

hello again,

I use sendAndLoad to get variables from php but the problem is, flash wants to publish immediately the variable but the serveur takes 5 ( for exemple ) secondes to answer. Conclusion, no variable can be seen on the screen !!

I tried to make a king og movieclip of 6 secondes. but if the serveur take 8 secondes to answer the problem is still present

so how can I do this ???

here the AS I use to get the variable from php :

	sendvar = new LoadVars();
	reception_var = new LoadVars();
	sendvar.onLoad = function(success) {
		if (success) {
		trace(" ");
		} else {
		trace("didn't work");
		}
	};

sendvar.sendAndLoad(“add.php?kill=”+new Date().getTime(), reception_var, “POST”);

thanks for your help =)