Sending secure php with flash

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use go daddy as my server. i have a economy plan and windows as the server.

my last attempt was the trail php and when I loaded the url it says message not sent.

in flash when i try the original code it takes me to message sent successfull. but I dont get any emails.

Code:<?php

$to = "dave@scotlandorbust.com"; 
$subject = "Flash Contact Form Submission"; 
$message = "Name: " . $_POST['theName']; 
$message .= "
Email: " . $_POST['theEmail']; 
$message .= "

Message: " . $_POST['theMessage']; 
$headers = "From: " . $_POST['theEmail']; 
$headers .= "
Reply-To: " . $_POST['theEmail']; 

$sentOk = mail($to,$subject,$message,$headers); 

echo "sentOk=" . $sentOk; 

?>

Code:

stop(); 

var receiveLoad:LoadVars = new LoadVars(); 

receiveLoad.onLoad = function(success) { 
   if(success) { 
      _root.gotoAndStop("success"); 
   } 
   else { 
      _root.gotoAndStop("failed"); 
   } 
} 

sender.onRelease = function() { 
   receiveLoad.theName = theName.text; 
   receiveLoad.theEmail = theEmail.text; 
   receiveLoad.theMessage = theMessage.text; 
   receiveLoad.sendAndLoad("http://scotlandorbust.com/send.php",receiveLoad, "POST"); 
}

here is my fla as well

[COLOR=#072978]http://www.scotlandorbust.com/fla.htm[/COLOR]

i am so new to this but want to learn. PLEASE HELP. this site has been awesome with my questions. check out my site. tons of help from you guys. thanks a bunch

if i need to go to another smtp i will

my biggest thing is that i just want people to click send and walk away from their cpu.

[COLOR=#072978]www.scotlandorbust.com[/COLOR]

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