Size of .swf

hi there,
ive attached the almost complete site… please take a look at it and let me know if theres anything i can do to make it better… as in load faster…
he wants that bar with the heart play every time the movie is loaded, so i couldn make it a preloader, because as soon as the movie is loaded into the cache, it wouldnt play again.

anything you can help with is much appreciated.