Small annoying bugs don't want to be fixed

I am a sound designer and i made my own personal website with flash cs4 action script 2.0,
but there is still some script that i can’t change by myself. The site is www.starlessdude.com .
here are the problems :

  • the menu load only when you call them and not with the preloader, so the menu is not synchronise with sound the first time you lauched it.
  • menu loads in a specific layers, i wish they always load on top, and come on top when you click on it.
  • the contact section does not work.
  • when you lauch the video section the musique stop and come back when you close it (wanted) , but if the musique is switched offby the user, the musique also come back whan you close the video, a variable need to be put on the script.
    i tried for 3 month to find solutions on my spare time but without any results if you have any ideas that can help me for any steps, i must finish it as soon as possible.
    thank you for your help, if you need any sound works i could help you back.
    cheers