Strange frame around flash

Alright here is the deal - every time I upload my flash file or even connecting to a website with flash implementing in it and place my mouse marker over it I get this annoying frame around it, and it’s only gone after pressing the flash.

My HTML code:
<EMBED src=“buttons2.swf” quality=high width=“171” height=“241” NAME=“header” TYPE=“application/x-shockwave-flash” PLUGINSPAGE="[COLOR=#800080]"></td>[/COLOR]

Am i missing something? am i doing something wrong? Any solution(s)?