Xml to flash

You know when we load something from the xml files, the code is like

<link name="MENU" ref="#"/>

the ref we usually puts in a page.html

Can I change the ref=“something.html” into actionscripts?
Like "gotoAndStop(2), var = “something” " kind of script?

And I wanted to have all my xml code in a file, can I separates it into different kind of group and give it a group name, so let flash loads only the data on that particular group?

Thanx for any help. :beam: