Xmlsocket & AS3

he guys
i need your help
actually i work on a multi-player game , i want to use xmlsocket but i don’t know if i can use this technologies on my ordinary web server because i find some server but they work with pythone (palabre) or java (aquaserver) in local it’s fine but how can i install them on my basic web server , if i can’t what alternative can i use that work with a basic hosting