but that song is relevant to the subject - go back and read the lyrics!! 
Itās a sad song :ā(
Yeah its awsome!
i agree wid grim and asphaltcowboy totally, theres no use having a broken heart, come on golgi start a club where all heart broken ppl meet and not b sad, just help urself and eachother, share a laftr, u live life in present, not the past and reason u live life is for future.Those who have a paused life coz of their bfās or gfās leaving them, help them start again, who knows we mite have a love story of its own in ur club:P
Be positive, hey i ll let u in on somethinā¦
i was on the verge of breaking up wid my gf last nite, we r togather from childhood, studied in same class, best frnds all our life then v realzd its loveā¦sad but she had to go to uk after 12th for studies and they all migrated, itās bin 5 yrs since tht, distance cozāz all the misunderstandings and arguements we never had and if last nite, she wudānt have msgd me on my cell and we met online after thtā¦ i wud have joinded ur club and inspite of oppsing u guys, i wud have bin against grim for sureā¦
I said b positive and i also kno itās easier said then done, but if we cn try? can we?
I had a breakup of a 3 year relationship close to three months agoā¦
can I join your little club? :thumb:
Although I have to tell you all, I dont express sadness and depression well.
I use anger to cover up all them goofy emotions 
Lets all reread thisā¦
*Originally posted by redGolgi *
**i am starting a club for all the kirupans who have broken hearts. we can drink tea (or vodka) (or both) and [COLOR=RED]feel better in our unity[/COLOR]. so anyone can start joining now. once there is another member or two we can come up with a name. **
i never said we would sit around and mope!
you guys like flasherjaz make good points. theres no use in sitting around and not living your life over it. but there is a good amount of pain that comes with it that you canāt just discard. sure, you can go about your daily life and enjoy it, i enjoy my life immensly. but when it comes to love, like when you get together with someone else, or sometimes when that song comes on, or when you go up to that mountain and see a sunset that reminds you of the last time you were together, little things like that are triggers and it all comes back. you canāt just throw that away altogether or else you are inhuman. or ignoring your humanity. sure, you donāt dwell on it, but itās impossible to forget it completely. and once youāve lost your true love, i think itās bad if you were to forget it anywhoo. our pain and our hardships make us who we are. they make us stronger and we learn from it. to forget is to lose a part of your evolution.
in anycase, the key to the club is not to sit around and mope. but if one of us is sad then the others can make them be happy. like you said grim.
EDIT: i just realized, russianbeer is the one who said we were all gonna whine and mope about. donāt listen to him, heās just innebriatedā¦
(aside to RB~ :trout: 
hehehe 
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*Originally posted by Kitiara *
**Yep.And the pool tournaments.
I draw the line at the fishing though. **
hahaha. i hear ya. i love, i mean absolutely LOVE fishing (iāve been fishing like 5 times this last week), but i canāt STAND watching it on TV. itās totally defeats the point of doing it IMO, like, i enjoy it because of the sport, and the nature and all. watching two smelly guys talk real low and sit for hours and then reel in some fish doesnāt do it for me.
*Originally posted by RussianBeer *
**I bet you watch darts tournament as wellā¦! **
whats wrong with darts and pool. i play and watch both :-\
*Originally posted by grimdeath *
**Well im sorry to burst your bubble but that is not possible, you see nowadays marriage or tis so called love you are talking about is all about convenience, so imho love is just a four letter word, and something you can truly feel towards a son daughter, mother or father, why because no matter what your children will aways be your children, the same goes for your parents but wives or husbands, well lets say they dont last that long, have you seen the divorce rates lately? **
i would agree with you. except that my parents are truely and utterly in love.
and i felt that way once. but itās over now. but if i could feel that way, then it proves that it exists as more then a matter of convenience. :beam:
i am starting to think you are more bitter then us ppl in my clubā¦lol!
oh and tool. good song! good music! good times! 
and no, i didnt do your pixelman yet. im a slacker 
nah, iāve just been fishing like every spare moment. but iām not gonna go today so ill bust one out for ya in a few. :beam:
anywhoo, youāre so right about this club needing music. so let me hum a little diddyā¦
i still recall the taste of my tears.
echoing your voice just like the ringing in my ears.
my favorite dreams of you still wash ashore.
scraping through my head 'till i donāt want to sleep anymore.
come on and tell me.
make this all go away.
you make this all go away.
iām down to just one thing.
and iām starting to scare myself.
i just want something.
i just want something i can never have
you always were the one to show me how
back then i couldnāt do the things that i can do now.
this is slowly taking me apart.
grey would be the color if i had a heart.
i just want something i can never have.
in this place it seems like such a same.
though it all looks different now,
i know itās still the same
everywhere i look youāre all i see.
just a fading f*cking reminder of who i used to be.
think i know what you meant.
that night on my bed.
still picking at this scab
i wish you were dead.
you sweat and perry ellis.
just stains on my sheets.
ya well i got a lil confused wid all those posts , sowwey 
u said
āāābut there is a good amount of pain that comes with it that you canāt just discardā""
Remember i said " I know its easier said then done "
Well congratulations Golgi, atleast u r trying that, i m glad =)
I have a formula, its really hard and u may not agree wid me on that.Usually the person who u love most is the person u hate most if something like this happens, ones who give u somuch love, only he/she can hurt u real that bad, rite?
But u r confused if u hate tht person, if u love tht person, wil u ever stop, can u stop hoping now and u remember the good times u spent wid him and canāt forget the time when it all ended.
I kno this is a forum, but still ppl generally talk in limit, i mean i opened up and usually do when i feel thereās a need of a perfect example wich i haveā¦ will all the members of this club are ready to take an oath of opening up wid other membersā¦ release everything?
This is really important, i think any forum full of smart, decent and understanding ppl works as a a type of a mirror, if u open up completly others can evaluate u better, itās like u 've got something on ur forehead and person whoz talkin to u see that and brings that to ur noticeā¦ u kno wat i meanā¦
Meanwhile, u can work on urself and i just have few suggestions here:
> Try n keep urself in his/her situation at that time if u were dumpedā¦
> If u dumped him/her, how right were u and did he really deserves that, this never help much as itās gona change anything, but food for mind i guessā¦
I bet all of u want to forget those good times u spent wid that person because when good times thots r over they ll b followed by the time it became hurtful, rite? u canāt avoid that, can u?
so u have to drop the whole package, just take ur experience wid u and not to follow any mistakes againā¦(mistakes: i truely believe that every women can get a man, but not many of them kno how to keep a man)
In the end u kno u hate that person, even if u dont, u kno tht he/she was the one who made u cry and feel hurt, so u hold a grudge against that person rite?
wat good is it?
is this makin u happy or that person realize how wrong was he/she? i guess notā¦
Easier said then done and only way u can recover from tht heartach is by forgeting that person, but those hurting memories wont let u forgetā¦this works as a cycle, a cycle wich goes nowhere,but to keep u stranded at one point and u can never comeout of this cycle if u stop thinking about all thisā¦how will u stop?
JUST FORGIVE AND FORGET
coz u canāt just forget him/her the other wayā¦
think about it my friend =)
well in order to hate you have to love first, and golgi yes ive been racked up pretty bad but im over it and i still have to talk to my ex wife and treat her nice as if anything didnt happen, why?? because of my kids, so you see its all about beign mature enough to put up with it and forget about it, and you know what i think beign single right now is the best option for me after a 8 year marriage and 2 kids, im doing better im back in college finishing my studies working my *** off and trying to build my own company so its all about getting up and start running again, no matter how many times you fall just pick yer d@mn self up because no matter how many friends are there, its something you must overcome by yourself .
And im all for busting my guts here if ya wanna know what really happened i have no shame in telling my story.
It looks like a trip down memory lane has turned in to a āflash back in vietnamā for some?
:sure:
We are just messing around, but honestly, I think its good that you act mature around your ex for your kids, really shows alot about a father. Good job!
hey my footers not the one with army people my name is grimdeath for something, its because i let go all basically any emotinal feelings but my kids wont let me kill em all so you see theres still some hope for me rotflmao
Hmmmmā¦
who said life is a box of choclates?
ahhahahah
Lifeās a *****, it bites real bad
