Preloading vs. embedded fonts

Hi everyone! I’m optimizing a preloader for a complex site and I’m battling the ■■■■ embedded text. Apparently you can ONLY link to fonts in the library if they are exported on the first frame. How do you get around this? I see no reason why it needs to be this way.

Without the fonts in the first frame i’m at a decent 3kb, but with, it’s pushed way up to 89kb! Ridiculous!

So how do you use embedded fonts later on in the swf without overloading the first frame?!?