Somebody help me!

  1. Linking 2 different swf in different windows is possible, check out this link.

http://www.macromedia.com/support/flash/ts/documents/localconnection.htm

  1. As for sites that seem to load fast, it’s because they’re broken up into seperate swfs and then using the loadMovie action to load them in when needed. When you view a flash site, you don’t download all of it at once, you only download what is needed for that moment.