Stupid Question

I have this female friend of mine that is in love with a guy i know.
He’s crap by anyones standarts.
[COLOR=darkorange]How do I convince her that she is better than this guy?[/COLOR]
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[COLOR=black]She is 28 and single, thin, pretty, short (for me anyway:krazy: ).[/COLOR]
She lives with her parents, which around here isn’t that weird.
Still not totally normal, but whatever… :puzzle:

She is cute, nice, and stupid.
I’m serious!
Not a joke. I like her, she’s my very good friend, but she is very thick. :puzzle:

This guy; just from what she has told me; has done a few very bad, if not terrible, things.
1 - They’ve dating on and off for up to a decade. Not exactly sure, but it’s somewhere around there.
2 - She had a wedding ring on the first time they split up. and get this…
Over the phone. She had a nervous crisis and fainted.
3 - He then started living with another women for a few years. Indication he might’ve been seeing her along with my friend.
4 - When he broke up with this women he slapped her so hard she went to the floor, fainted and bleeding from the nose. Just left her there.
5 - She and him were inside a car once, and she was scared enough to think about jumping out of a moving vehicle on a road that is on a mountain side. She’d probably fall down a huge cliff and die if she’d done this.
6 - He recently told her that nothing more than sex will occur between them. She cried her eyes out for a week. Still wen’t back for more.
7 - She has always had reasons to distrust him. Thinking he betrays her with other women. He talks like if he does, or did when I saw him.
8 - She told me recently that “He’s good sometimes”. Now what kind of relationship is supposed to be “good sometimes”?

Is it me?
Am I crazy?

This girl is stupid!
She is one of the sweetest girls I’ve ever met but; “door nail” people! “door nail”!

How do you show this woman she, and anyone for that matter, deserves better than this guy.

Funny thing is he has on more than one occasion tried to “give her away” or just “pass her” on to another person. Me on one and some other dude he described as “trully annoying”.
I started out as his friend, but he’s gathered up enough tips to figure out I dislike him.

She had a run in with drugs and from what I gather he must’ve saved her life getting her away from drugs. So that’s where it probably started!

Nobody deserves this kind of treatment.

I’ve made it abundantly clear I’ll go balistic at the simple mention of his name. So she no longer speaks his name when we talk.
She seeing him again. I’ve gathered that much.
She had told me she’d lost friendships because of this, now I know why.
I’m always trying to be kind with her, but it’s just hard when you see that this guy isn’t even trying to have a life with her.
Makes me mad to the end of me.:td:

Help me out here.