guys i have just realized i got a crush on my good friend. its killing me having her not know, and me not knowing how she feels, but i cant “just tell her” because i know we wouldnt be as close of friends anymore, and that means just as much to me. i donno what to do but i really need to talk to her about it soon.
someo one help!
Just tell her or you’ll always be wondering…what if?
Remember…
It comes ONLY out to go to the bathroom!
Don’t listen to your hookey-doo - it’ll only cause you problems.
*Originally posted by billmarr *
**Just tell her or you’ll always be wondering…what if? **
I donno but for some reaosn that doesn’t sound like the best course of action to me.
If I were you MIDI I’d ask her if she wanted to go see a movie or something and then while your out watch how she behaves towards you advances (like touches on the arm, shoulders touching during the movie, etc). I would not confront her about it like billmarr said because that might scare her which would be exactly what your afraid of. Go on dates and let things play their course. If she doesn’t get any closer to you while you guys are alone then she’s probably not interested.
Also remember that probably the only reason you are attracted to her is because you spend so much time with her and are such good friends. Its only natural that you would begin to feel an attraction towards her.
don’t be such a p***y, quit stalling and talk to her already. The worst thing about trying to start a relationship is worrying. No matter how much you worry about what she is going to say, it won’t affect her response. and if she says no, then move on, stay friends, see if ahmed’s available, do whatever. just don’t let it get to you. and all for the best. good luck.
If you really value her as a friend… be very careful.
I told one of my good friends I liked her, and she didnt feel the same… and lets just say now, we fight a lot. about random stupid stuff
Ahmed would treat you better…
Rev
Tell her you have a secret….
But you can’t tell her because you worried that once the secret is out, it might affect your friendship and that’s the last thing you want…
She will play that tell me game, tell me, tell me, we will still be friends… then when your bored with that… Make her promise that if you tell her, nothing is going to change…
Then when she agrees, just shake your head and laugh, and spit that you have a crush on her…
If you laugh and treat it lightly, she won’t feel threatened and if she is not interested it shouldn’t affect your friendship…. At least she knows and the balls in her court…
If she is not interested you had better get the idea out of your head fast, or ditch her as a friend… Cause if you let your crush go on, when you see her with another guy it will piss you off.
I had a good friend once and I told her about my feelings, she told me that she only wanted to be friends and we lost touch after that for a period of time. Only later I found out from my other friend who was also her friend that she would start dating me if there wasn’t this other friend, who was also my friend and her friend. We were a bunch of friends 
Anyway, we are good friends with her still.
[size=1]Number of words “friend” : 9 :)[/size]
just ask her to go out with you (alone). go some place nice, don’t be pushy & just try to seduce her.
the only thing is, that if you break up, you’ll probabrly won’t be friends anymore tho. (in 99% of the cases)
So think about it good.
Tell her.
It’s easy for you guys to say. He’s gonna follow one of the advices from here, probably get a slap, and you won’t feel anything cause it was not you :sigh: 
Mike, you need to wait for the perfect time and the perfect place. Just do what your heart tells you. 
Take your chances mike, or you might regret later. Im not saying you have to tell her how you feel.
But I agree with rdj. Try getting closer to her, asking her out, just the 2 of you, but don’t be too pushy. And watch for any signs she may give you on how she feels about you. The next step… well… it depends on the signs.
Good luck mike
I had a similar thing, where I really fancied one of my friends who I’d known for about 5 years. We were always doing stuff like going to football, films and that together, but neither of us had the guts to actually ask the other one how we felt about the whole thing.
Two years later (two years!!!), we finally got it together and started going out. To be honest I think we only managed it because we’d both had a little bit to drink. He was walking me home and we were having a conversation… I think I might have been taking the mick out of him innocence when he turned round, said “don’t you start”, kissed me and it just went from there. 
Went out for a year and a half, and still friends now, even though we split up. 
That’s what I call romance :love:
Did I mention that we were standing in the middle of a road at the time? :sure:
Not so much romance, more like downright dangerous. 
OK, so it was 11.30 at night and not too busy, but of all the times to pick, when you’re crossing the road?
Did passing cars stop and start applausing? Like in the movies y’know :}
dipi jsut tell her how you feel and let her know how special she is to you, you might be surprised she might feel the same way. Don’t let time go by and never tell her because you might be letting go the love of your life. Me i lived wiht my ex wife for 8 years knew her since she was like 7 years old, and we broke up got 2 kids and are very good friends. It’s all about how mature you guys can be when it comes to breaking up. Every person i break up with is still a very good friend we ocassionally go out drink beers and talk about our new experiences its really cool. Every person is special and if you have feelings for this person then you should let them know, and if she considers you a real friend she shouldnt get scared just because you like her.
Good Luck buddy. :thumb:
Just tell her that you really like her, and you could imagine a closer relationship to her. (not in this words)
hey guys thanks a bunch for all the replys. i kinda know what i am gonna say, but am gonna wait it out for a few more days. thanks a bunch. :thumb:
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