*Originally posted by Seretha Blaze *
**Hey Mdipi,
I would highly recommend following Digigamer’s advice. Go places together alone but dont make it feel like a date. If she is interested she WILL make some sort of hint like Digigamer said. If you tell her something like that even if she suspects you like her, saying it outloud can really turn things around, trust me. I had a male friend and we’d hang out together and then he asked me out. I loved being his friend and we had so much fun but us as a couple wouldnt have worked. I said I think we should stay friends but that made him made cause he had gone out on a limb to ask me… we wernt friends really after that… we felt awkward and weird after the confrontation and to make things worse he actually spread a rumour around the camp we were working at that I had sleep with his friend WHICH I DIDNT and boy does something like THAT make you made.
Moral: If you’re good friends and you enjoy their company, dont try to change the relationship with a conversation, make general hints (arm touching, shoulder’s toucher [Digigamer’s ideas]…) and the other person, if interested will make them back. You will get the understanding if they also have more than friend feelings for you.
~ Seretha :love: **
wow someone accually agreed with my advice. Thanks Seretha
i tried that secret thing someone said to do (forgot who), but it didnt work, she was like, thats cool. i should have known tho…she is like that a lot.
oh well, apperently someone found out i like her and told her but she doestn belive them :rolls eyes:
Mdipi, are you really worried about losing the friendship or are you worried about being rejected? If you don’t let her know you’re going to regret it. I think you are more afraid of being rejected. It’s okay to be afraid but if you if you don’t take the plunge you might never know. What’s the worst thing that could happen? She says she doesn’t feel the same way about you and you can get on with your life. There are plenty of nice girls out there and if you spend too much time dwelling on this one you’ll lose out big time.
Also, if you two are hanging out all the time chances are she feels the same way you do. Be a man! Tell her, but don’t be all mushy and fragile or she’ll think you’re a wimp.
*Originally posted by mdipi.com *
**i tried that secret thing someone said to do (forgot who), but it didnt work, she was like, thats cool. i should have known tho…she is like that a lot.
oh well, apperently someone found out i like her and told her but she doestn belive them :rolls eyes: **
Mdpi what did you expect her to do? Coming running into your arms and slap a big kiss on you? Not likely to happen.
She wants to know that you’re confident and man enough to talk to her.
*Originally posted by Kitiara *
**It all depends on the girl, in the end.
Some will respond better to being asked directly, others will be easier to talk to in a subtle way.
If you’re friends already, then you’ll probably have a pretty good idea of the kind of guys she likes, and how she prefers to deal with people. **
Kitiara, mdipi shouldn’t be trying to convince her to like him. I mean who cares about subtelty? If she likes him and he lays his feelings on the line in a sincere way he’ll know by the way she responds if she likes him or not.
Mdipi, do it! Don’t be a wimp or you’ll regret it!
I tried Telling a girl in my school i liked her and she never talked after that. it was the worst thing that hapend to me being i nerver had a girlfriend in my life… i still dont
*Originally posted by mXwarlord *
**I tried Telling a girl in my school i liked her and she never talked after that. it was the worst thing that hapend to me being i nerver had a girlfriend in my life… i still dont **
What do you mean it was the worst thing ever? At least you’re not wasting your time fawning after this girl anymore. If she doesn’t talk to you anymore then she’s probably an idiot!
yeah thats how i am looking at this, at least i wont waste my time with liking her and i can move on after thsi. i havent ever had a gf myself either, not that i couldnt, :-/ its just hat i never liked any of the girls that i could have been with.
*Originally posted by billmarr *
**Mdipi, get off the computer and get on the phone! **
:azn: darn what a reilf. i dont think she feels the same way cause she was like “Nothing would ruin our friendship” but she had to go right after, so we didnt talk much.
warlord,
If you like a girl then you should definitely talk to her. Granted you guys are young and probably a little intimidated by the girls you like, you should just know that they’re like everyone else. Greet them with a big smile and they’ll smile back. Have confidence in yourself. Realise that your fears are unrational and you can overcome them. (the more girls you talk to the easier this stuff gets)
Also, if you never talk to these girls then how do you know you like them? Trust me when I say that looks aren’t everything.
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