dear guito,
It’s good that you want opinions on your site. But, please don’t underestimate what design is all about!
I trained for 4 years as a designer and have been freelancing for 2 years. It takes time, practice and research to be a good designer.
Having said this, i don’t really understand what your site is all about. Some guidelines:
Who is your audience?
What is your aesthetic? (what is the look you are going for)
Research! go to www.linkdup.com , click everything everywhere, always find things to use as influence (NOT copy).
With web, there is so much freedom. But it can be overwhelming!
Also, don’t assume “effects” are the answer! most of the best design out there is about being sympathetic with your designs.
I like to be understated so that people will look at my website and no nothing about design, but will feel comfortable with the design. Also web heads will see some nifty coding etc that does the job well without showing off.
I wish flash wasn’t called flash! It gives the wrong to impression to most of the public.
I would do some experiments with colour, be very careful using strong background images over text. Feel for it, love it and don’t accept second best.
There are always compromises to be made, but write a brief for yourself outlining exactly what your site is all about, who will view it etc.
And remember you don’t have to be an advanced flash technician to make a beautiful, crisp funky site.
good luck, i can send you some links to sites that i love and give you an overview of what makes them great if you want.
kd