hey :mu: , I think you guys are categorising it a little bit too much.
There are no set channels when it comes to socialising and dating.
Gone are the days of dating / seeing / going out with.
I go for drinks with girls to get to know em better, maybe some one you have met out a few times but what to spk one on one. You ask em out for a drink (“a date” in old terms) this way you have their total attention and visa versa.
Its not ment to be a struggle or painful you are supposed to enjoy spending time together, if you dont like the time together then its the wrong person.
I think it gets easier as you get older, but just chill out be your self, see what happens it might lead to some thing might not, just relax. Man all that talk of marriage is a bit much take it as it comes small steps first.
I mean how many time do you have to go out with some one before you are officially seeing them, and how long do you have to be seeing some one before you are officially an item, its all bull crap there are no set guide lines just go with what feels right.
So i dont think “THE DATE” exists any more really. :afro:
And you go out with girls coz you like going out with girls. Thats the point!
**** you will know when you meet the right person, and untill then just have fun trying to find thet right one. be cool but be safe :afro: