Very wisely spoken couldnt have said it any better.
grinch//Love that song.
radio//There’s not really much left to say without repeating someone else. Just chill.
I dont think your life sucks until your starving over in samolia. We are seriously spoiled here in america! I went to nicaragua one time and saw how poor people are and its really eye opening.
It sounds like you are actually very lucky.
To find a girl that great and she want’s to be friends with you… I think that’s very fortunate.
Also, she called you after you thought you blew it and all hope was lost. I think that’s very fortunate as well. You just have to have a better outlook on life and what’s going on. Sure it felt like death when you asked her and she said no, but I imagine it felt amazing when you heard the phone ring and relized it was her.
It’s the little things in life that make it worth living. All the feelings you get, good or bad, let you know your alive.
I think your a very fortunate person 
that’s not being in yer bed most of the day that you’ll meet new interesting people. for ex. i met my actual girlfriend in urban transport (bus) :love: . you have to be at right place, at the right moment.
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Amen to that, I haven’t even gotten a girl to LOOK at me or talk to me! Of course I’m starting high school next two weeks, so that could change :hugegrin:
Don’t worry about it. I’ve been married 16 years and I had to ask my wife 4 times to go out with me before she did. Of course I knew I wanted to marry her so I was persistent. The girls before that got 1 chance because there are plenty of girls out there unless the one you want is the one.
Radio! i was just listening to this song and i thought about your problem! The song is “Not Enough” by FLAW, if this song doesn’t talk about how u feel than idk what else! but even if it doesnt make u feel better it’s still a great song!
SO I`m going to get to the same hole as u.
how old are you ? My time is coming :}
But u know this girl, i hope she likes me when she comes back ! :love:
The worst thing I dont know here much good friends no, she barly know me, but I hope we get close like u did.
Life is crazy ! 
many guys get lucky, I dont know why girls pick them, they are not better than me, but its strange. Love is blind 
@ grinch: got song last night, it’s playing now… interesting. (I’ll give a better opinion later). I’ll get the reason later (maybe I have it already…)
@SlowRoasted (and others that posted I am good in compasion and stuff): I know. I really am very fortunate, here in Northern Cali, although things can be better. I’m not complaining about those things (right now…). I am just a stupid American; I’m not good at seeing things like that and appreciating them. I want more things, faster food, and plenty of women, and I want it all NOW!
Thanks SureShot, that actually for some reason means a lot from you 
It’s just good to hear that from someone I respect so much here. And when the phone rang, I was talking to my friend, and yah, for a second I thought, ‘Oh wow I hope it’s her for some reason’, and then it said private:private, which her number always says… yah it was exciting haha…
And I’ve been really trying to see things differently than I used to, it’s jsut really hard. I am a real glass half empty kinda guy. But she makes me different and that’s another great thing about her, I just can not be stupid like that around her.
Oh man yeah, High School it gets better. I’ve progressively changed throughout my life (as I hope everyone does, but some people…)
In middle school I couldn’t get a girl to save my life… eventually in high school, well I still wasn’t very cool and I wish I had been different, I learned alot the summer RIGHT after high school. But I had lots of at least fairly decent friends. It’s only now, two years after high school, I am getting even this far… which I guess is pathetic? I don’t know, I just am not a typical guy (and I say that with a cringe as I hate people that try to say they are different, cause that always means they are just the same :sigh: ). But seeing as I don’t drink or smoke, do any drugs, and basically have no interest in sports, there goes like any chance I have of getting with a girl, I guess. They all seem to, at least right now, want an idiot with a nice car that likes to be an ***. I guess that passes as confidence in most girls books. (this girl luckily, she is so much like me, as she hates the same stupid things that kids these days buy into.)
Mods, rename this thread to “Songs About Girls” Thanks for the suggestion, I’ll look into it 
OKAY! Thanks for your insight fellas!
What a post, I skipped half of it 
Poor radioxromance 
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Theres one girl that likes me, she’s pretty hot…but i don’t like her…and then theres this other girl that i like…but i’m 99% sure she doesn’t like me…life ‘suxxors’.
If shes pretty hot, go for her lol
ehh, it’s boring though…ever kiss a girl you don’t like? it’s like kissing a wall…
update:
life sucks even more.
She now seems to dislike me.
I am repulsive to the opposite sex.
I am alone now, I will always be alone, there is some inherent flaw to me that makes this so.
I want to die.
Woah woah woah, relax… no girl is worth that much depression.
Anyway, what did you do to make her not like you? And do whatever you can to get on her good side… but don’t come on too strong, take your time.
Allow me to strongly disagree. It can be good. After all, kissing someone you do like doesn’t make it necessarily amazing. It just helps 
radioxromance >> Forget about her. I know it’s impossible, but try. If she wants to see you, she’ll call, but in the meantime don’t call her, don’t try try to see her, don’t stalk her, you’re only going to piss her off and mess with your head. Instead take that little bow and arrows of yours and start hunting! 
this wouldn’t have happened in Hawaii 
Only joking…forget her, I know it’ll be hard but forget her. Cut her out of your social circle and find someone else, doesn’t sound easy or maybe even something you wanna do but in the longrun it’s the best thing to do. You won’t find someone else if your still beating yourself up about this gilr, girls can smell when a guy has been rejected by another female in the room…it’s freaky. Take her out of the picture and find someone else, thats an order.
Good luck :thumb:
life sucks even more - [COLOR=DarkRed]no it doesn’t[/COLOR]
She now seems to dislike me - [COLOR=DarkRed]better off whitout her[/COLOR]
I am repulsive to the opposite sex - [COLOR=DarkRed]no you are not[/COLOR]
I am alone now [COLOR=DarkRed]not for long[/COLOR], I will always be alone [COLOR=DarkRed]don’t be silly[/COLOR], there is some inherent flaw to me that makes this so - [COLOR=DarkRed]that’s just ridiculous![/COLOR]
I want to die. [COLOR=DarkRed]Do not EVER think that. If you genuinely feel that then you need to talk some kind of counsellor. [/COLOR]
If however, you are just going through what EVERY man has gone through then move on. She’s not for you. Accept it.
By the time you’re 40 you’ll have had more women than you think possible now - I guarantee it
Please read Cello’s post again…
Now one more time…
Ok got it. Good. You are a great person I am sure, and this is just one instance where the one you wanted got away, it happens all the time. I remember the girl I was with before I met my fiance, we dated for like 3 months and it was like utopia at the time, I thought “this is the life I want and this is who I want it with”. Then all the sudden she message me on the interent one night, after a great time was had earlier inthe day, and told me it was over and that she couldn’t do it anymore.
Well - I thought that was it. I lost 15 pounds over the next 3 weeks - turned white as a ghost, almost lost my job and thought I would never find a girl again.
I was wrong, I found my fiance, and that other relationship turned out to be nothing like what it should feel like. What I am trying to say is, even though things seem rough now, they will change for the better. It might take a bit of time, it took me almost a year to seriously start dating again. You will be just fine my man. You seem like a great person with a lot to offer, you seem very sensitive and that’s a great quality. You will be just fine. Relax, try to think about other things, design a webpage, play some sports, go for a walk, call some friends you haven’t talked to in a while and go see a movie - you will get over this. I promise.
oh yah, go read cello’s post again 
Cheers buddy.
