Asphalt: Lol
Kit: Writing down on paper
So it’s call on Friday to confirm. What about when to call back after?
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not the next day, but the day after…
Rev
Date on Sunday… Call Tuesday or Wednesday. 
I know it drives me crazy when I don’t hear from a guy until a while later.
Since Kit is giving advice here and my question might assist you in what to talk about on your date:
Kit: What are some good get to know questions?
*Originally posted by Kitiara *
**Date on Sunday… Call Tuesday or Wednesday.
I know it drives me crazy when I don’t hear from a guy until a while later. 
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good to know we think alike on this subject… makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside…
:love:
Rev
Nice, since Friday is the 4th of July in the US, she might not be home, should I call on Saturday if she’s not home that day?
O yea, conversation is needed. Although we’re going to see T3 for some reason (she picked it, I swear to god), talk or no talk during the movie?
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Depends how well you know the girl.
Most women like to be listened to and (lets be honest here) talk about themselves a lot. So, ask her about what she does (if she works), what she’s been up to recently, that kind of thing. If she seems particularly enthusiastic about something, steer the conversation onto that, even it bores the hell out of you for a while. Don’t worry, eventually she’ll be expecting you to talk to her about your stuff, but that comes later. 
Generally it helps if you know a bit about her already and what she likes. And I guess if you don’t know yet, this is an ideal time and way to find out.
Oh, and generally - no talk during a movie. Especially if she’s picked it. She’ll want to watch it. Unless she talks first, that is in which case feel free to answer.
If she is not home on Friday, leave a message, and hopefully she will call back. If she doesn’t (some women will not call men), then call her back on Sat. to confirm the movie theater and time.
Rev
I bet rev is an animal in bed 
So once you get past Hwat do you do, where are you from…
… What are some other questions, that might let a girl know that you are really interested in “her”. (Not her bra or how much she paid for it.)
and also that are questions that will let you figure out the most about who she is and what she is about.
I know Alisha (the girl I’m going out with) pretty well. I have to admit though, I complain a lot, I’m not sure that’s attractive, but she not sure if she’ll talk much about her problems. I express my problems loud and clear. I basically know a lot about her already, but I think it can get irritating to be asked all those questions. I want to talk to her about her problems, but not sure if she’s open as I am.
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Like what problems?
I’m not sure the best topic of conversation for a first date is about problems. Maybe something light hearted, find out some things about her you don’t know.
Lmao @ Ethan. Don’t worry aobut bras, I don’t think that will come up on the first date. Although…that would be fun. :thumb:
Rev: I think thats what I’m going to do, call and leave a message if she’s not home, but what if one of her many siblings or parents answer?
Asphalt:
I bet rev is an animal in bed
I don’t want to know how you know that. 
You guys don’t want to hear my problems. I can write an entire essay about my problems, but I’m willing to share if you guys are willing to hear me complain.
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I guess just finding areas of common ground, things you both maybe have an interest in… I had a date once where we spent roughly 45 minutes discussing the merits of a 4-4-2 formation, complete with drinks glasses as digrams. I have some weird dates sometimes. But as an example, he found out that I was interested in football, so he asked my opinions on various topics within that subject.
And it’s kind of how you behave towards her too… Look her in the eye not the chest, but not for too long else you’ll look like a psycho. Be courteous and gentlemanly, like opening doors for her. It’s subtle and maybe old fashioned, but unless she’sa a radical feminist she’ll appreciate the thought.
For the record, not once has a man enquired about the cost of my bra. At least not on a first date.
Kit: Whats a 4-4-2 formation? Don’t worry about me staring at her chest area. I’ll try my best to keep my eyes straight, unless she’s wearing a low cut, then all hell breaks loose.
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*Originally posted by Maxtr0sity *
**I don’t want to know how you know that.
I didnt say I knew! I said I bet!
Kit: Forget bras… one of my friends talk to his date about ‘sht’… not as in nonsense… actually 'sht’ :-\ lol :thumb:
Originally posted by asphaltcowboy *
**Kit: Forget bras… one of my friends talk to his date about 'sht’… not as in nonsense… actually ‘sh*t’ :-\ lol :thumb: **
I told you not to tell anyone that! 
Max - 4-4-2 is a footballing formation, mind-bogglingly dull to anyone uninterested in football.
And if it’s a low cut top - stare at a point about 2" above her head. Just don’t drop that gaze.
Asphalt - OK, I’ve never had a date do <i>that</i>
lol, rest assured it didnt last long
soul: lol! sorry I forgot